i’ll be the doing-er

i think there is a reason that making lemonade has become a proverb. in a world where sugar and lemons are so easily acquired, there is something so utterly simple about lemonade. now, i prefer mine made with honey, but i am of course a bear.

levi and i made lemon/lime-ade the other day. we squeezed about 4 large lemons, and twice as many small limes. this was a remarkably small amount of remarkably tart juice. we added water to the juice. then then we added sugar, and then more water, then a bit more sugar until it seemed like lemonade, but at that time we had both already sampled it and pickled our tongues. levi probably was more pickled than i, but by pickled i mean happy as juice.

during this process levi was very excited about using our juice squeezer, but despite his enthusiasm, pulling the lever until all the juice was extracted proved too difficult. i told him that instead he could watch the glass and witness the glorious egress of juice, while i was doing the the lever. he then said “okay, yeah, you can be the doing-er, and i’ll be the watcher.” And so we were. He then became the drinker, and i the pouring-er. I drank a bit too. (In fact, now we’re out, and tomorrow will be in the 90s again, so I’m now wondering whether we have citrus in our fruit bowl.)

This behavior of assigning roles is somewhat new for Levi. He likes to define rather arbitrary sounding titles to what seem like impossibly simple games, and then define the roles for the game. For example, throwing the frisbee in the tree was something like “fly fly catch tree” game. I believe I was the watcher and he was the flyer, and the tree, the catcher. Really… Unlike my ability to describe it, his imagination seems inexhaustible.

Mark

Comments off

three foot two and rising

I’m sure Levi is actually taller than that, but according to the Western Virginia Science Museum’s reflectometer, he’s 3 foot 2, and come to think of it, the doctor’s recent measurement agreed.

I was looking at my last post, oh so long ago, and yeah, I can no longer call the boy a toddler. I mean, he’s three! The parent, and just about anyone else that has known Levi should be remarking something to the effect of “it is hard to believe” or “i remember when he was just a wee baby all wrapped up in a sling.”

Such days are gone, and pure memory, perhaps fable. We do have numerous pictures to prove that he was in fact a wee baby at one point, but even those seem fabricated. Speaking of pictures, there are new ones available.

I’d like to highlight a particular one. This is Levi’s painting from an art class, in particular, this is a portrait of the Cheshire cat. I’m quite proud of this rendition, but it does further the notion that our child is growing in unfathomable ways.

The Cheshire Cat

Comments (1)

why do we have to sleep?

Something must click in a toddler’s brain, some kind of developmental epiphany, which leads to an interest in the “why” questions. “But why do we have to sleep, why?” Now, one might consider this particular question to simply be part of a larger act to stall the inevitable turning out of the lights and going to sleep, and that is likely true, but I’m convinced, that asking “why” is in a category of itself. Is it just learned from we parents who in our attempts to make our governance transparent, explain the reasons behind our rules? (If the kid is lucky!)

And, I ask you… why do we have to sleep? It seems like a simple question to answer, but isn’t all that easy. Our son requires a full explanation, which we arrive at through a simple progression such as “we sleep because we are tired.” “why are we tired?” he asks. “because we played so much.” “why did we play so much.” he asks. “because that is what [we] wanted to do.” “why did we wanted to do that?” “well… that’s what we do! basically, we need to sleep to rest our feet, head, legs, hands…” “what else?” he asks “arms, fingers, cheeks, tongues, eyes… oh, especially our eyes, and finally, to let our brains dream, so we can get up in the morning and feel rested, and then we can play.”

somehow this is a satisfactory answer. we lie quiet for a few minutes… soon, i hear deeper and heavier breathing coming from my child. i sneak out of the room, and clean up the kitchen while listening to the subdued talk of npr. my wife and i watch snl skits on the computer and laugh ourselves silly for a minute. somehow i conjure the will to write in this blog.

i wonder what he dreams about. he used to have bad dreams about the train. if you listen for it, you can hear the train all night long here. there are about 20 freight trains a day that run up and down the MoPac line, part of which is located about 2 blocks from us. i think there is some law that says they have to blow the horn while going through certain parts of town, and they do. there is one now. about two months ago, levi woke up terrified every night for a few nights – he said the train was taking momma away. how awful! he didn’t like it at all. i convinced him to go down the creek by the tracks with me during the day to see the tadpoles and stuff, and to watch the train up close. i thought it might help desensitize him, or traumatize him, i guess. i’d like to think the former is what played out. he hasn’t complained of such dreams since.

sometimes – rarely – levi wakes up complaining about not feeling well. it’s really hard to figure out what is bothering him. sometimes it is his head, and sometimes it is his tummy – sometimes he just needs to pee, but getting this information out of a half-awake toddler is an interrogation like none i’ve ever performed. if you do suggest something that you think will make him feel better, such as pee, don’t get your hopes up. a favorite phrase from this child’s mouth is “that didn’t feel me better.” if it wasn’t such cute toddler grammar, you’d get really frustrated.

Comments off

Sing a Song

Levi is a microphone-ready toddler, bordering on ham sandwich! (to listen you can just click the little speaker icons, or to download – why you’d want to? i dunno! – right-click the link)

Levi Singing Itsy Bitsy Spider 8/25/07

And now, 8 months later….Levi Singing Itsy Bitsy Spider 3/17/08

Finally, a little interview with the artist…

Comments off

got goat’s milk yoghurt?

haircut

Yes to the goat’s milk yoghurt, a bit gross looking, eh? but did you notice the new haircut? Levi has lost his wonderful mess of curls that was amusing, moody, wild, occasionally quite feminine, and well, unruly. I just had to tame it. I had been threatening it for weeks. So, the other day, the scissors was there, his head was there (ladyjoanna was not there!) so I surreptitiously snipped a lock. As I hoped, Levi saw the result of my work, and was excited to see more. When ladyjoanna saw it, she was very surprised, and a little mournful, but she seems to like the new look as well, and while she rightfully scolded me for doing this without her present (a cardinal sin for dads, i’m told) she seems to be fine with it all now, especially after she fixed some of the hacking i did.

He probably won’t get mistaken for a girl for a while. I know it shouldn’t matter, but it was bothering me. I don’t think he ever heard anyone call him a girl, which happened fairly often with strangers, so the haircut won’t correct some outstanding incongruence in his mind, but it will in mine, which counts for something, no? Plus, his hair was like a creature on his head. At times it would grow an arm which would stick out horizontally, or another head which would lift its way up behind his own. This could be dealt with by combing, and he likes to have his hair combed, but I’m no fan of maintenance. In the end, his new cut looks cute and boyish, yeah? and well, it’ll grow back!

Furthermore…. New pics available!

Comments off

chaka the owl

Our littleScreech Owl

For my birthday last March, ladyjoanna got an owl box for me to put up in our tree, and this summer I put it up… not long after it seemed as though an Eastern Screech Owl began using it. Now she comes back almost every day to use it. Well, we assume it is a female. I think they are the nest hunters, and with any luck she’ll raise some owlets out of the thing.

So, Levi gets as excited about it as ladyjoanna and i do… we asked him what he wanted to name the owl and he went through a short list of made up names that he seems to be working on… the first was “chaka” then it moved to this word… umm… “shaysh” … another favorite is “futah”; the spellings of some of these loses the toddler accent, but maybe you get the idea. lady-jay wanted to call her Gretel, which I thought was fitting.

Anyway, we’re glad to have this owl share our yard with us…

Comments (2)

New Pictures Available!

http://www.levijames.info/pics/levi/months25-26/index.html

So, my old software for displaying pictures kinda blew up. This is now a static set of images, movies (don’t forget the movies! they are usually worth the downloading time) and html… should be safer all around. Whenever there are new ones I’ll put up a message with a link for them…. otherwise check the sidebar for the main pictures link.

Comments off

Finger Puppet Housing

Puppet Condo

Levi started the game. Or maybe ladyj or I did, I don’ t know, but Levi gets credit for evolving the game. It goes like this.

Dada: Let’s make a house!
Levi: For puppets!
Dada: Okay who is going to live in it?
Levi: Ele-pant gonna lib innit.
Dada: Okay
Levi: Ele-pant is sad.
Dada: Oh really? Why?
Levi: (with a wimper as the voice of elephant) I’m sad. I’m tired. Gonna go to sleep
(the first condo in the house is built, and ready, i do most of the framing, and levi applies the rooftops)
Dada: Maybe you can live here, elephant?
Levi: Elepant go to sleep. It’s raining.
Dada: Oh, is there thunder?
Levi: No, just raining.
Dada: Oh
Levi: There is thunder, too.
Dada: Oh, is there lightning?
Levi: No, just thunder.
Dada: Oh
Levi: Its lightning.

And so on… all 10 or so puppets get a house and the condo building grows and grows until there is just one or two puppets left. And here it gets even more interesting. Levi announces that the final two puppets are going to knock it down, and with them in hand, Levi topples the structure.

He then inspects the rubble and pulls out each victim saying… “I’m hurt. I need a band-aid.” That’s where the scotch tape comes in. Levi knows just where it is, and if you don’t intervene he’ll start pulling long yarns of tape from the spool. But, I usually am able to intercept and create the effect he’s after. He wants individual “bandaids” for each puppet. So, I cut up 10 or so pieces of tape, put them on the edge of the table so he can get them easily, and he goes about his meticulous process of applying first aid to each victim… elephant, green fish, red fish, narwhal, dog, starfish, crab, blue octopus, green octopus, etc… they all get the treatment are arranged neatly in a row as if they were bunkered in a room of hospital beds.

We’ve played this wonderful game everyday at least once for about 3 weeks it seems… it has sort of evolved to this point, and I can’t wait to find out what happens next.

Comments off

firecracker

more stories…

so, we’re about to go down to watch the fireworks, and we parents are a bit nervous about how levi may react – maybe he’ll be very scared, and that might force us to leave right away, and that would be fine, but… etc. – so we decide to brief him on what he might hear and see, and tell him that it will probably be loud, but it is “okay”.

as we are preparing, he is asking tons of questions, rather extending prompts, about firecrackers and fireworks, and these other exciting new words we used, and he really wants to know where the firecrackers are, and wants to see them. I tell him that he probably won’t see firecrackers, but will just hear them, and that later we’d see fireworks in the sky. As I’m telling him this, a loud set of firecrackers goes off from some neighbor’s yard, and I say “there it is, that’s the firecracker sound” and I ask him if he could hear it. he was a little startled, and intoned to me in a solemn voice “it will be okay.”

indeed, it would. later we saw the fireworks, and he was scared, but within about 30 seconds seemed to come around and was starting to comment on the colors – it turned out to be a very nice little outing.

Comments off

diapers, the poop dialog

Today I picked up some diapers at hole foods. (Yeah, I couldn’t defend myself against the tractor beam.) I kinda dislike rubbing shoulders with all the well-off people in there. Somehow the hole (sic) place just makes me feel squeemish; alas, it does carry a lot of stuff that our family buys. (Suffer me this self-indulgent linkage –> I’ve blogged about HF before over here too.) So, when I go in there I get this sort of smug feeling of goodness when I know that I am there to get diapers for my son. And, I may be socially sick enough to think that this is lifestyle high ground – as if having children were universally considered the most meaningful thing you can do in your life. I know there are people who say things along those lines. And, I know there are those who disagree – the founder of PETA, for example, thinks it is vain to bring another purebred human into this world. Then there is the more sort of utilitarian world-view for not having a child given the rate at which it is likely it will consume natural resources, etc. (especially in the american, including myself, rate of consumption.) Not that long ago, I think I sided a little more on the utilitarian side. But, here I am now unable to imagine any other possibility but the lovely family life fate has dealt us. And, here ladyjoanna and I are occasionally pondering the idea of “another”?

This does make me think a bit more about my view on this has evolved over time. It seems that probably at the zenith of my single life – about to travel to Australia, out of debt, gainfully employed, and while alone, generally living well – I recall my sister Lori asking me whether I was going to ever have kids. I remember that at that time I really couldn’t think of it. I’m not even sure I was interested in thinking how that could happen, although I think I showed a genuine love for kids (though probably not he problems that having one incurs), as I *think* my sister also saw, and what perhaps prompted the question… In any case, my answer to her was a sort of evasive one claiming that I had enough problems finding a girlfriend.

Actually, As far as the diaper buying feelings go, I think it is just pride in having such a prosaic task which will have tangible positive impact at home. Btw, we do cloth diapers during the day, but use these at night and while traveling, and before my errand we were plum out of them.

Of course, it would be ideal if we could get the boy potty trained. We’re loath to rush him, but I’m tired (and I’m sure I can speak for the lady of the house) of the frequency of adult to poop contact. Doesn’t help that the wee lad poops softly. He’s never really had a turd, per se. Our pediatrician in unconcerned, so no worries, but gosh a turd would result in an easier clean up job.

that’s it … that’s my vain life as a parent … pictures coming soon

Comments off

way ow we?

“way ow we, mama?” says levi

“we’re at the gas station” replies ladyjoanna

The question of “where are we” inspires great wonder in me, especially now that Levi uses it more. How did he learn this useful phrase? Surely we have asked him “do you know where we are?” before…I can feel that question on my lips. Maybe when we go somewhere new, and especially on our trip to Maine. Levi was confronted with some heavy concepts, like statehood. Surely, statehood is confusing, mostly mythological, to just about everyone, but it is kind of a brand, too. Somehow New England gets many brands – Vermont, Maine, New Hampshire, etc. You can travel for a full day through Texas and it is still Texas. What could any of this mean to a toddler. At times Maine meant “not home” and at times he really wanted to “go home” (with a hard “H” sound that is really cute.) But, he also wanted to know where we were a lot, and I think it is because he wanted a name for it, so he could refer to it later, just as we did. I’m glad he learned how to ask for this himself.

Comments off

happenings

on our walks, when levi sees pearl, our fine little cocker spaniel, pooping, he says in his cute toddler voice “pearl is poopening.”

poopening.

actually, i think this happens when we play our hopping game. “dada hoppening!”

oh, and donkeys are “honkeys.”

i guess it is fun to talk about your kid. seems like every parent does it. sometimes we talk with other parents and it is a constant “my kid does x” … “oh, when blah does x he says y!” … “oh, instead of y our blah says z!”

frankly, hanging around anyone while on duty with your kid tends to lead to fragmented and low quality conversations. certainly not always… probably that is something i could work on… but i’d be foolish to complain. we do what we can, and we have great parent friends. what would we do without great friends and their great kids?

Comments off

conversations and such like

(I was dressing Levi and he was doing the funniest kicks and talking a lot about our “one foot, too feet” game that I used to get his pants on… so this is the conversation that began during that)

Daddy – “Are you out of your mind?” (sometimes you just have to address the weirdness with playful and stupid questions like this.)
Levi – “Nope”
Daddy – “Are you out of your mind?” (i set him down at this time, he walks off toward the books)
Levi – “Noooooaahhh” (his dipthongs are wild)
Daddy – “Are you out of your mind?”
Levi – “Noooo”
Daddy – “Do you know where your mind is?”
(silence, he stops for a second)
Daddy – “Where is your mind?” (levi starts walking again)
Levi – “Rieeght Heeow” (right here, that is. he is pointing to the curls on the back of is head)

So, I have no idea why he answered that way. I’m not sure than anyone has tried to teach him where his “mind” is… or his brain for that matter. We should do the brain bit… but unless you are some kind of zombie, or perhaps if you’ve been trepanned (perhaps there are other medical situations i should be sensitive to, but…) you can’t really expect a 20 month old child to get that there is an organ called a brain inside a head. can you? (this does remind me that i have this illustrated multilayered anatomy of the human head which might be a helpful teaching aid. or i guess gray’s anatomy is on-line… hrm.)

Another conversation:

(i’m holding a green colored plastic disk with a black letter “w” printed on it. this is a piece to a toy frog game. you load the frog up with these disks, then hit a button on its back and it spits them out. older kids, like myself, might sequence the disks to spell out words or something, but levi just likes to get the disks as they are spit out and set them in a specific place. he really likes collection and arrangement type activities like this. anyway, i’m holding this green “w” disk, and like an adult, i decide to quiz him about letters, something i don’t really care if he knows about, but was kind of curious whether he understood what a letter is…)

Daddy – “What letter is this?”
Levi – “Green”
Daddy – “Good, yes that is the color, but what letter is it?”
Levi – “Black” (he’s smiling, i think he is really trying to please at this point. so cute.)
Daddy – “Right, that is the color of the letter… let’s see, what “ABC” is this?”
Levi – “Dubba-you”

Wow. I quizzed him on a few more, and he knew a few more, like “I” and “L” and “E”… I think Juju has been teaching him how to spell his name, and he picked up “W” from the hilarious Bert and Ernie skit, where Bert leads a meeting of the National Association of W Lovers. I just didn’t think he knew what “letters” meant, and he doesn’t – he knows what ABCs are though. Of course, he loves the ABC song, and has an ABC book, and watches a bunch of Sesame Street (Or did, until the time change…). He’s had a lot of alphabet exposure. Probably too much for some people’s tastes. Anyway, this was a funny little exchange, i thought.

Other funny exhanges are:

“What are you doing?” reply : “Doo doo doo doooo” (i guess that is how this question sounds to him, but he thinks it is super funny, because when we are asking this we are often wondering if he’s doing mischief.)

We sing the “One Fine Face” song to him, and at the end let him sing the last word. He really hams it up saying/singing… “fayyyyyyyyyycssssss” like only a toddler can…

Comments off

tour the mind

“children are so funny” chimed our local bicycle shop owner as we both watch Levi tour the store sort of dancing, sort of talking (especially about the owners cute puppies that he had brought in), and sort of just being goofy. In return, I tried to get us to imagine what it would be like inside the mind of a child (and why not… the mind of a puppy.) For instance, does Levi reflect at the end of the day on what kind of day he had? Does he consider some days better than others. Does the idea of a day occur to him? Or is time sort of a stream, and his view a kind of constant cross-section of that stream. (The impossibility of ever knowing, really knowing, is part of the fun here.) On one hand, this lad seems to have amassed quite a knowledge of the world. It is a kind of encyclopedic knowledge, but within it he often exhibits surprising recall. The other night we went to a restaurant we only go to once every couple of months. As we pulled in, he said “Arr-why (Arden), runneen (Running)” – in fact about 7 weeks before he and his little friend, Arden, spent an hour after dinner running in the very spot he was pointing at.

So, I wonder if Levi knows how much fun Mama and I’ve been having with him these days? I mean, we’ve always had found wonder in our little gem of a boy, as doting parents around the world make a practice of doing, but lately with his new words, and behaviors are wonderfully entertaining.

I have an urge to catalog many of them right now, but I’m way to long-winded (and doting). Hmm, here’s a few:

- Happy? Happy.

This is one of those things that Levi doesn’t do anymore, but it was so rousing and hilarious when he did. ladyjoanna would ask “are you happy?” and this would get him in this little loop of saying “happy? happy.” “happy? happy.” etc. walking around the room asking himself and answering himself. It is almost impossible to describe the hilarity of this, and it very well may fall into that catagory of “you had to be there…” (we do have some audio i’ll post at some point…)

- Words

The vocabulary is too vast to document. The uninitiated might need a translator, but probably just for 1/4 of his expressions – the others are clear or getting clearer. (The current funniest of pronuciations is “Froofratter and Jayhee” for peanut butter and jelly… his favorite snack) The nouns have grown in number rapidly including wonderful coverage of animals, food, and people. But a few verbs are starting to get heavy use, including see, sit, eat, go, run… and other useful words like “too” (”mama/dada sit too”) and “back.”

- Colors

Levi is wild about colors. (Colors also being the word for crayons or pencils.) At the bike store today, he saw this display of water bottle cages in assortment of colors. I quizzed him in front of the owner, and he nailed them all White, Black, Yellow, Blue, Red… He didn’t know silver, but I think he might now. It’s silly, but I felt so proud.

- Organizer

One new activity the wee one has been refining is the organization of objects. He’s gone back to his favorite type of object, the ball. I put together a collection of inexpensive rubber balls and he will spend hours lining them up along the door, or putting them on a ledge, or along the base boards, then he will put them all back into the container they are stored in… over and over. It’s kind of a dream. I can actually get something done.

- Elmo and Ernie and Bert

Equal with Levi’s vocabularly for the animals that he’s seen in photos or in real life, is the vocabularly for the characters of Sesame Street. Ernie, Elmo, Bert are his favorites (perhaps in that order, but depending on the day, elmo is top), with Big Bird, Cookie Monster, Grover, and Telly following up. Limiting the amount of TB, as he calls it, is a tricky business. We keep it under an hour each day for now, but he gets slideshows on the computer too. I hate to do arbitrary stuff like limit tv time, but we also like to expose him to a wider variety of things. Besides if there is a moral undertone to Sesame Street it would be “diversity is good”… i won’t even dare to say something pithy about that. I think it is true.

Okay… long-winded indeed.

pictures soon…

Comments off

gobble gobble

just about to head home for a long weekend with my family, mostly Levi, as ladyjoanna will be working a lot. i’m looking forward to it. i joked with people at work that taking care of him is more work than showing up here everyday, and that is true. physically, the boy is a bit taxing. he weighs about 27 lbs and requires a lot of picking up and holding. we are actually thinking that we need to be doing that a bit less. perhaps he can be reasoned with? surely he understands back pain? he must have all kinds of pains during his rapid growth spurts. and, his colic… if that wasn’t pain, then what exactly was it then?

if you didn’t notice the new pictures, they are there. i’ve been dabbling with my old slr again, and hopefully will put those results up soon. everything is slow with actual film cameras. there is something interesting about that process. shooting a roll of film and only getting 1 good picture. levi is firmly a part of a generation that may never know of such things. film?

but, really as I sit here, mentally preparing for this extended weekend (”long” sounds pejorative, so let’s do away with it for now) I have a smile and this sort of brewing thoughts of how humorous levi is these days. he expresses himself with more audacity, and a growing vocabulary. but even if he doesn’t have a word for what he wants to say, he’ll fill it it. he’ll confabulate! well, perhaps he knows his words are fabrications, so maybe not in the technical sense, but he talks a good game. he talks turkey, in fact…

gobble gobble!

Comments off

a full moon

since levi has been able to recognize the moon (months ago), we have been watching for it during our walk. each night this week and some of last as the moon was reaching for its current full state, we’d look for it in the sky. tonight, i think he could tell that this particular full moon bore special features. for tonight it sits rather low in the sky; above the horizon enough to be large, but not colossal. it is glows amber as it were illuminated by candle-light. it asks us to be outside tonight, to witness it, and as if you have a farm to work, it is there for you to labor under its sheen.

ahh, but we are city folk. so, during our walk, when we were at a particularly good viewing spot, free from telepone poles, and power lines, and looking over a cut in the trees, i advertantly woke levi up so he could see it, and he let out a chuckle as he often does when excited. he then said ‘mooooo’ a few times.

next stop, harvest moon, which is in october this year.

Comments off

Children, and mothers, that’s the way we have it.

our son entertains us. his words are all over the place. it appears impossible to catalog all his words and signs, as he seems to use a new one each day. and it also seems a like a weird exercise, but i don’t want to forget some of this. and, i rarely remember to record him.

so, he says these things:

“ball” (bahl, bbbbbaaaaaahhhhhhhllll, bow-ell-ull…)

Ball deserves a kind of homage here. So much of Planet Levi orbits the Ball Sun. Not only does he just say “ball” when he throws one, or grabs one, or sees one – and he can see one over a block away – but he also has many expressions – mostly ones that we don’t understand – which end in the word “ball”. These include babble-esque sentences such as “bahtah ball. colaht-too ball.” I believe these are attempts to mimic (or use, i suppose) questions we parents ask such as “where is the ball?” or “is that an orange ball?” etc. But, I think that he may even have his first real sentence (or word combination, rather) in the occasionally used “go ball.”

Quite simply, “ball” is the most commonly used, and emphatically expressed word in mr. Levi’s vocabulary.

“go”

Right behind ball is “go”. “Go” and door (which he simply bangs on when he wants to use it) are probably synonymous to him at this point. Sometimes “go” is all Levi needs to get him out of a funk. Actually, we swear he said “go car” yesterday.

“shoes” (sssshooooz!)

Perhaps there is an association between “shoes” and “go” – as the action of putting on shoes is often paired with us going somewhere. In any case, it would be rare to find a person more excited about shoes than wee Levi James. Imelda, perhaps…

“cheese”

The kid loves cheese. A chip off the old block.

“car” and “choo choo”

Recently, we stayed one night near the O’Hare airport in a room on the 5th floor of a hotel. We were overlooking a ridiculously busy intersection, and nearby railroad. Our boy just couldn’t get enough of watching the cars, trains, and airplanes. He uttered “car” the most. He was very excited about it. We saw a couple of trains, which he has seen several times before, but I think this time it sank in and he shared “choo choo” with me. Now, being by O’Hare means we saw an unprecedented number of jets at low altitudes. Levi seemed a bit apprehensive about these giant hunks of metal coursing throught sky. He would point in awe, perhaps. Sometimes saying “this?” (dis?) as though to alert me of them. It may take a while for that experience to solidify.

“this” or “that” dis?

i actually am not sure if that is what he is saying when he points at something he wants or wants us to do something for him – read a book, for example. sometimes he utters “dis?” (as if a question) and hands me a book.

“fish” ffsh

We have a fish aquarium that is in varying states of sadness. Recently we had a bad die off, but some of the platys that died left behind babies that were recently born, and those little fish are very hungry. When we feed them, Levi is usually quite interested. As I explain the activitiy, he now spots the baby platys and says “ffsh… ffsssh”.

“dog” and “duck”

The old “dog and duck.” These have been in his vocabulary for a bit, and are often clear as bells. He will even imitate the barking of a dog. This is a pleasure for any audience. He also will *sometimes* provide either “dog” or “duck” if you sing “Old McDonald” and pause after “on his farm he had a….” – that is too much! He loves that song.

“bubble” bah boh

Blowing bubbles is a past-time all of us have had at one point. I don’t remember eating the soap, as this on does, but he sure likes bubbles. Perhaps it is the bubble’s spherical shape, which it shares with the ball, that is so resonant with him. He has just as much fun looking at bubbles as he does trying to get the wand into the bubble soap container.

“doll”

It took a while, but recently Levi discovered dolls – thanks to Grandma’s house. He had a strong fascination with them, and learned the word quickly. Since then he has noted them in pictures.

“pearl”

Our son has learned to yell at our dog Pearl just as his daddy does. In hopes of getting Pearl to retrieve (she doesn’t), I often bellow out our dog’s name across the schoolyard where we throw a ball around. Levi does the same. He kind of squats and let’s out a cry of beckoning. He’s a field recorder, this one. I should be afraid of what I say next.

“food”

He used to say “food” – I haven’t heard it in a while. He loves to eat. That is certain.

I’m sure I’ve missed many things… but this is a good start.

Comments off

One Year Happenings

While I’m here, I thought I might post some things that are going on around here these days. It has been a while!

walking: Levi has walked 3 times now. Just a few steps each time, but he’s slowly working on it. It is so, so exciting to watch because he is so happy and excited.

talking: Wow. Levi is talking A LOT! He says the following (new words): ball (okay, so it isn’t new, but it is constant), food, shoes, GO, bye-bye (dye-dye), Ma, dog, bear, more, and he repeats just about anything he hears. I guess it is time to really start watching what we say!

signing: He is now using lots of sign language, too. He uses more, eat, milk, and maybe a few more we aren’t quite picking up on yet….like pointing at the door to go. Now that he is communicating some of the things he needs/wants, it is incredible. We’re working on ouch, drink, music, and some others.

Ma and Pa: The funniest thing in the world is that he calls Mark “ma” and I’m “mama”. Now, we can’t figure out if he’s saying Mark or if he just has two mamas. It makes us die laughing every single time.

Other things:

He’s obsessed with shoes. He likes to wear them now and put them on then take them off (hours of entertainment!).

He loves stairs. He crawls up and down, up and down, up and down. And he’s pretty darn good at it, if you ask me.

He is still in love with Pearl. He also adores the kitties and is learning to be gentle with them by practicing on Steve. Poor guy.

He has lots of good friends, which I want to post about separately.

He loves to eat on his own and is eating lots of grown-up food. His new favorite drink is grapefruit spritzer. He is always saying “more” and signing for it.

He’s a water baby! Just call him Levi “splash” James Haller.

He sleeps on a big-boy bed…his own futon and loves to stretch out.

He loves music, particularly listening to his “ma” play guitar. He always calms down when we sing to him.

That boy can dance! We all know who he got it from, right? Not me! He does a hilarious thing where he bangs his head to rock songs and does a one-shoulder lift to songs with more of a pronounced beat, like old-school rap.

It is hard to take him out to eat. He wants to be down, exploring, which is totally understandable. We’re going to have to start looking for restaurants that are specifically kid-friendly! Austin is pretty good, though. Picnics are good, too. Especially when the weather is cooler.

That’s about it for now!

Comments (1)

don’t throw it

Our sweet little son said his first full sentence today. See, our guy is a ball-a-holic. He can’t get enough of rolling, bouncing, or throwing. And, often, he uses other objects as balls and rolls, bounces, or throws them. Today, it was a book. I didn’t realize it, but I suppose I say “don’t throw it” a lot when it comes to objects that might hurt others. So, at our mama co-op playgroup, he was about to throw the book and I told him not to throw it and my wee-one repeated the entire sentence, then softly put the book down. Is there a genius in the house? Sorry.

Comments off

The Walking Report

I’ve been informed by an Haller home insider (aka Mama) that Levi just took 4 steps. He apparently was so excited by this activity that he laughed thoughout its execution. Mama, also excited – probably moreso – exclaimed upon completion “You did it!” To which, the 1 year old seemed to reply “did it!”

Two proud parents are we!

Comments (2)

« Previous entries